Magen & Raf’s Union Station Wedding – Part 1

Oh my goodness, the summer wedding season descended upon us in a flurry at Sweetchic, and blog posts have been few and far between!! I still want to feature a few favorites from last year (super belated, I know), but they are too pretty not to share! Here is Magen & Raf’s beautiful wedding at Union Station… a venue that I have ALWAYS wanted to work at! Magen & Raf are such a fun, vibrant couple, it was only fitting that they chose Steve Koo as their photographer. Steve’s modern and fun approach to weddings fit them to a T and captured their day perfectly!

1. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Black and Gold Wedding Stationary. Old Hollywood. Great Gatsby. Glamour.

1.2. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Sonia Roselli. Bridal Make up

2. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Flower Firm.

3. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Sonia Roselli. Bridal Hair.

4. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Wedding Dress. Wedding Shoes. Glamourous. Regal. Old Hollywood.

5. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Groom Socks.

6. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Groom. Chicago Skyline

7. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Flower Firm. romantic Bouquet with light pink astilbe, Sahara roses, light pink stock.

8. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Blush Dress. Glamorous.

9. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. First Look with Father.

10. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. First Look.

11. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Michigan Ave. Chicago Skyline

12. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Michigan Avenue. Chicago Skyline.

13. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Mixed Metal Bridesmaids Dresses.

14. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Groomsmen. Black Suits. Bow Tie.

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16. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Olive Park.

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20. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Olive Park.Chicago Skyline.

21. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Olive Park.

22. Union Station Wedding. Steve Koo Photography. Sweetchic Events. Olive Park.

Stay tuned for Part 2!!

Vendors:
Ceremony & Reception Venue: Union Station
Photographer: Steve Koo Photography
Wedding Planner: Charlene, Sweetchic Events
Videographer: I Do Films
Florist: Flower Firm
Ceremony Musicians: Parkwest Strings
Lighting/Draping: Sound Investment
Officiant: Brian, Chicago Weddings
Caterer: Food For Thought
Linens: Chaircovers by Sylwia
Bakery: Bombon Bakery
Make-Up & Hair: Sonia Roselli
DJ: Style Matters
Band: The Mix
Wedding Invitations & Stationery: The Bride!
Wedding Party Transportation: Chicago Trolley
Gust Transportation: Windy City Limos
Photobooth: Magbooth

Always the Planner… Now a Bride.

Today, we have a special post from our Lead Associate Coordinator, Courtney Brust. It’s special because she is getting married this Saturday.. and she is sharing her wedding planning experience and tips from a planner-turned-bride!

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The final countdown is here. Actually 3 days to be exact.

While wedding planning, the question I get asked the most isn’t the normal “How did he propose?” “Can I see the ring?” –  it’s “since you’re a wedding coordinator, how has it been planning your own wedding?”

For the most part it’s been wonderful – and I think that is what everyone expects to hear; that it’s a breeze – that I have it “easier” than other brides.  Which again, for the most part, is true. I have industry knowledge that has let me make great vendor selections, keep within budget (..sort of), and saved money by not having to hire a full wedding planner. And if I’m looking for advice – I just happen to have a boss who is willing to share her expertise.

But when I get asked this question, the first thing that comes out of my mouth is usually a *sigh* – which tends to shock people!

Let me tell you something: Planning a wedding is easy – it’s hard to be a bride.

Be the bride, not the planner.

I’m sure anyone who is a planner or knows a planner, understands the characteristics we have. We like to have control of situations, we have a knack for details, and logistics come easy. This is me to a T – which makes it BEYOND difficult to just let go.

I’ve been told numerous times – “You need to be the bride. You need to enjoy this.” And this goes out to every bride: we walk into vendor meetings all business – when what we’re really missing is the big picture. This is YOUR wedding day. Every planning experience happens once. So for the control-driven brides like myself: let it go! Be the bride and let your vendors talk about things you already know and just enjoy the fact this actually happening for YOUR wedding. And keep in mind that your fiance may have no idea whats going on – and not letting the vendor talk about all the facts and details because “you know this” , probably leaves fiance in the dark. Poor, poor fiance.

Trust the professionals

Trying to have confidence in your vendors, mixed with the inability to let go of control is a hot mess waiting to happen. When you basically had all your details and wedding timeline done a month after you were engaged, it’s hard to hand that over to someone else. But these people are professionals. When I work with a bride & groom on their wedding day, I hope to have their full trust that I can take care of their wedding day just as they want it. If I expect that out of my clients, shouldn’t I be giving that to my vendors too? For all brides: Trust. Your. Vendors. But of course, don’t be afraid to speak up when something isn’t the way you envisioned. Let me tell you, I make sure I do this often :) It’s your day, your vision, with professional tweaks from someone who actually does this for a living (that last sentence should be easy to understand why I’m so conflicted, haha)

Actually writing the checks

When we work with clients at Sweetchic, we keep their budget in mind throughout the whole planning process. When I work with bride and grooms for day-of coordination – they’ve basically handled the budget themselves and may just need suggestions on tipping vendors. So although we like to keep them on track – we never handle the money.

It’s kind of like when it was so much easier spending your parents money when you were younger, but as you made your own, it was harder to spend coming out of your own pocket. That’s how we’re feeling now. I’m not used to booking vendors — and actually paying for it. Each check written and credit card swiped creates a bit of uneasiness.

Tip to stay on budget:
1) When you make an initial budget to stay within – make sure you have some cushion room.  The “cushion” will be for those extra things you just “had to have”, unexpected costs, and of course, gratuity & tips. A good amount would be a 10% cushion, but at minimum a few extra thousands.
2) Make a budget spreadsheet, broken down into each category (i.e. venue, catering, decor/floral, apparel, entertainment, stationary, etc.) — and stick to it. I actually overheard a woman shopping for her wedding the other day and she was complaining that she’d have to go home and track down what she just spent, since her fiance is very strict about their budget spreadsheet. You’ve got a good man, honey.
3) Keep track of where “wedding money” is. Keep it all in one place such as a checking account or even a savings and withdraw as needed. It’s like those old ING commercials, “This is orange money. I can’t use this.”

More than just the bride & grooms’s opinions…

Sure parents, siblings, and friends may come to initial meetings and some vendor meetings, but most of the time we’re just communicating with the couple. This makes our job easier for the most part. Then I step into the role of a bride and realize how many opinions are really coming your way. This is what my clients deal with? People’s opinions on not keeping the traditional “not seeing each other before the ceremony” and when we’re going to cut our cake?  Let’s not forget the parents. We may feel obligated to respect and follow our parents wishes because they may be paying for all or some of the wedding, or you just don’t want to start off on the wrong foot with your in laws.

Here’s our tip: find out your parents priorities early. Just as you have expectations for your wedding – they may too. If they have different opinions than the couple, as long as it doesn’t completely stomp on the couples dreams, try to meet at a middle ground where everyone is happy. If you lay out the expectations and priorities from all parties in the beginning, there will be no surprises (hopefully!) in the middle of planning when you had no idea that a parent wanted a certain thing or felt a certain way.

But do keep in mind that it is your day, and if you and your fiance really want something that maybe isn’t the favorite of a parent’s, go with your gut feeling.

Day-of Relaxation…TBD

I’m not quite sure how I’ll be on my wedding day. As of now, I feel like I’ll be an anxious wreck wondering if everything is under control. It wouldn’t matter how many wedding coordinators I have there, because I’m not in control, I get nervous. But this is NOT how I want to spend my day. I want to fully enjoy the moment and all the emotions – with the exception of stress. Feeling like me about your wedding day?

Tip Number One: hire a wedding planner, or at least a day of coordinator. Trust us ;)
Tip Number Two: As much as you don’t want to have your family and friends help (and your wedding coordinator says they will take care of everything ,because we will..), they will WANT to help. Even if its just little things. Grabbing something for you here, relaying a message there. Don’t ask them to set-up the centerpieces, but if you forgot to tell you coordinator something, have someone else call them. It’s the little details like that that can stress you out – so its better to hand them to someone else.

Keep calm and be the bride.

Jamie & Elaine’s Intercontinental O’hare Wedding

 

Elaine & Jamie came to me last January and requested a summer wedding… so I’m excited to share the wedding we planned for them in about 5.5 months! They live out in the suburbs, so the Intercontinental O’Hare (which is now the Loew’s Chicago O’Hare Hotel) was the perfect fit for the modern, elegant wedding they envisioned. Lovely photos by Fragola Productions.

1. Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Chalkboard Invitations with florals.

2.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Classic Bride.

3.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Vale of Enna. Hot pink spray rose boutonniere with dusty miller.

4.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. long Purple bridesmaid dresses.

5.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. First Look.

6.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. First Look.

7.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Abstract Art.

8.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Groomsmen.

9.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Contemporary Art.

10.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Rooftop. Wedding Party.

Gorgeous florals by the talented team at Vale of Enna! Love the dramatic Manzanita arrangement,
dripping with crystals, and anchored with vibrant, jewel-toned florals.

11.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Vale of Enna. Dramatic Manzanita branch escort card arrangement. Hanging crystals.

Ribbet collage

I love the huge rose-like chandeliers in the ballrooms of the Loew’s Hotel! So dramatic and gorgeous!

15.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Classic Wedding Ceremony. Light Pink Uplights. Buddhist Ceremony

16.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Buddhist Ceremony. Double Happiness.

17.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Groom waiting at altar.

18.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Bride walking down aisle.

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20.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Buddhist Ceremony

21.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Kiss.

22.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Large Lush romantic florals atop bullet vase. Roses Hydrangeas stock orchids. pink.

23.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Vale of Enna. Low and lush centerpiece. square vase. hydrangea, roses, stock,orchid

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26.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Cake Topper. Bride and groom with mickey mouse ears.

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29.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Purple Uplighting. Dramatic Uplighting. Classic Wedding

30.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Chicago Wedding Planner

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33.  Intercontinental Ohare Wedding. Fragola Productions. Sweetchic Events. Cake Cutting.

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Vendors:
Ceremony & Reception Venue: Intercontinental O’hare (now Loews)
Photographer: Fragola Productions
Wedding Planner: Charlene, Sweetchic Events
Florist: Vale of Enna
DJ & Lighting: Spin Productions
Photobooth: Shutterbooth